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Aella: Sex Work, OnlyFans, Porn, Escorting, Dating, and Human Sexuality | Lex Fridman Podcast #358

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Aella is a sex researcher, writer, and sex worker. Please support this podcast by checking out our sponsors: - House of Macadamias: https://houseofmacadamias.com/lex and use code LEX to get 20% off your first order - Athletic Greens: https://athleticgreens.com/lex to get 1 month of fish oil - InsideTracker: https://insidetracker.com/lex to get 20% off EPISODE LINKS: Aella's Website: https://knowingless.com/ Aella's Twitter: https://twitter.com/aella_girl/ Aella's OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/aella_girl/ Askhole card game: https://askhole.io/ PODCAST INFO: Podcast website: https://lexfridman.com/podcast Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/2lwqZIr Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2nEwCF8 RSS: https://lexfridman.com/feed/podcast/ Full episodes playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLrAXtmErZgOdP_8GztsuKi9nrraNbKKp4 Clips playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLrAXtmErZgOeciFP3CBCIEElOJeitOr41 OUTLINE: 0:00 - Introduction 1:57 - Uncertainty 9:34 - Sex, power, and death 22:03 - Free will 23:29 - Consciousness 33:24 - Childhood 46:22 - Dancing 59:38 - Casual sex 1:01:53 - Camming 1:16:48 - OnlyFans 1:27:02 - Dating 1:42:54 - Escorting 2:00:55 - Emotion vs reason 2:09:00 - Love 2:16:32 - Polyamory 2:25:26 - Monogamy 2:31:57 - Sex fetishes 2:49:25 - Dominance and submissiveness 2:59:06 - Psychedelics 3:18:18 - Romance 3:25:47 - Body count 3:35:34 - Porn 3:38:53 - Mortality 3:41:29 - AI 3:52:09 - Rationalist discourse 3:56:00 - Meaning of life SOCIAL: - Twitter: https://twitter.com/lexfridman - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lexfridman - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lexfridman - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lexfridman - Medium: https://medium.com/@lexfridman - Reddit: https://reddit.com/r/lexfridman - Support on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/lexfridman

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disagreeing with those people is very difficult and I'm not very good at it.", 'start': 2649.88, 'duration': 4.144}, {'end': 2661.782, 'text': 'Yeah, I do think that if you establish yourself as a person who can be trusted and is a good human being,', 'start': 2654.755, 'duration': 7.027}, {'end': 2667.087, 'text': 'you have a lot more freedom to then explore ideas that are different from your peer group.', 'start': 2661.782, 'duration': 5.305}, {'end': 2676.455, 'text': 'So those seem, if you separate the space of ideas versus some kind of deeper sense of what this person is,', 'start': 2667.867, 'duration': 8.588}], 'summary': 'Building trust enables freedom to explore diverse ideas.', 'duration': 26.575, 'max_score': 2649.88, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc2649880.jpg'}, {'end': 2951.974, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 2923.424, 'weight': 0, 'content': [{'end': 2926.207, 'text': "Okay So I'm like, I'm like, I'm an invisible follow.", 'start': 2923.424, 'duration': 2.783}, {'end': 2927.868, 'text': "You do move, it's like a..", 'start': 2926.227, 'duration': 1.641}, {'end': 2928.429, 'text': 'Oh, interesting.', 'start': 2927.868, 'duration': 0.561}, {'end': 2929.349, 'text': "I'm not like good at technique.", 'start': 2928.529, 'duration': 0.82}, {'end': 2931.331, 'text': "I didn't know those existed, like a perfect follow.", 'start': 2929.389, 'duration': 1.942}, {'end': 2931.691, 'text': 'Oh yeah, perfect.', 'start': 2931.351, 'duration': 0.34}, {'end': 2932.552, 'text': 'So you can perfect follow.', 'start': 2931.711, 'duration': 0.841}, {'end': 2933.473, 'text': "I'm really ideal.", 'start': 2932.772, 'duration': 0.701}, {'end': 2937.877, 'text': "I'm not great at technique and sometimes I'll fall over, but like with the following part, I'm very good at it.", 'start': 2933.813, 'duration': 4.064}, {'end': 2939.718, 'text': 'Do you enjoy following? Yeah, yeah.', 'start': 2938.297, 'duration': 1.421}, {'end': 2940.359, 'text': "It's really nice.", 'start': 2939.738, 'duration': 0.621}, {'end': 2943.669, 'text': "Again, it's a very fast physical puzzle you have to solve.", 'start': 2941.407, 'duration': 2.262}, {'end': 2944.269, 'text': "It's like typing.", 'start': 2943.709, 'duration': 0.56}, {'end': 2945.31, 'text': 'I really like typing.', 'start': 2944.289, 'duration': 1.021}, {'end': 2947.751, 'text': "That's why I was inquiring about your keyboard earlier.", 'start': 2945.33, 'duration': 2.421}, {'end': 2951.974, 'text': "Why do you like typing? 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Yeah, who could break through that.", 'start': 4311.914, 'duration': 5.701}, {'end': 4323.037, 'text': 'So basically get data on how many people are getting sex trafficked directly.', 'start': 4318.396, 'duration': 4.641}, {'end': 4326.898, 'text': "Oh yeah, like if you don't frame it like, if you don't say the word sex trafficking, you're like.", 'start': 4323.657, 'duration': 3.241}, {'end': 4332.67, 'text': "are you just in a situation where you would- And maybe through the survey I mean that's very meta, but through the survey, help them.", 'start': 4326.898, 'duration': 5.772}, {'end': 4336.081, 'text': 'You know, this is what started my relationship surveys.', 'start': 4333.439, 'duration': 2.642}, {'end': 4339.824, 'text': "So I've done a series of relationship surveys, and that was because I knew somebody in a terrible relationship.", 'start': 4336.141, 'duration': 3.683}, {'end': 4340.544, 'text': 'And I was like.', 'start': 4339.904, 'duration': 0.64}], 'summary': 'Design surveys to gather data on sex trafficking victims and provide assistance.', 'duration': 28.63, 'max_score': 4311.914, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc4311914.jpg'}, {'end': 4571, 'src': 'heatmap', 'start': 4412.537, 'weight': 1, 'content': [{'end': 4419.21, 'text': 'So what were the cons? What were the negatives of camming? Oh, like the exhaustion of just like live, like the high pressure thing.', 'start': 4412.537, 'duration': 6.673}, {'end': 4420.673, 'text': 'That was probably the worst thing.', 'start': 4419.37, 'duration': 1.303}, {'end': 4429.371, 'text': 'So what about the interaction with different people, like the dynamics of the interaction with the fans, I guess? I had a pretty great time.', 'start': 4422.288, 'duration': 7.083}, {'end': 4432.992, 'text': "I mean, obviously it wasn't perfect because it's the internet, but I don't know.", 'start': 4429.751, 'duration': 3.241}, {'end': 4438.975, 'text': 'This is the thing that confuses me a lot because a lot of women that I know complain about being harassed by men quite a lot.', 'start': 4433.192, 'duration': 5.783}, {'end': 4442.756, 'text': "They're like, you know, men are always, you know, groping our ass, you know, you have to be paranoid in the club.", 'start': 4439.015, 'duration': 3.741}, {'end': 4446.577, 'text': "People are like, they're always huffing on you and you're just like, Jesus Christ, get away, man.", 'start': 4443.276, 'duration': 3.301}, {'end': 4447.838, 'text': 'And I do not have this experience.', 'start': 4446.617, 'duration': 1.221}, {'end': 4450.02, 'text': "Or maybe I do, but I'm interpreting it differently.", 'start': 4448.238, 'duration': 1.782}, {'end': 4450.52, 'text': "I don't know.", 'start': 4450.08, 'duration': 0.44}, {'end': 4457.626, 'text': "The thing is, I don't know what causes me to have such a different experience from these women that feel really hostile towards men.", 'start': 4450.82, 'duration': 6.806}, {'end': 4462.21, 'text': "And my guess is that there's some sort of very subtle signaling that we're accidentally doing.", 'start': 4458.047, 'duration': 4.163}, {'end': 4463.371, 'text': "We're like, no fault of our own.", 'start': 4462.49, 'duration': 0.881}, {'end': 4464.232, 'text': "I'm not saying this is a virtue.", 'start': 4463.391, 'duration': 0.841}, {'end': 4466.874, 'text': "I'm saying maybe it's just genetic or the fact that I fall.", 'start': 4464.252, 'duration': 2.622}, {'end': 4469.173, 'text': 'That women are doing? that the women are doing, yeah.', 'start': 4466.894, 'duration': 2.279}, {'end': 4472.897, 'text': "And it might be just something that I'm completely accidentally,", 'start': 4469.914, 'duration': 2.983}, {'end': 4480.704, 'text': 'through no intention happening to signal the thing that is causing men to not view me as a desirable target, or a target at all.', 'start': 4472.897, 'duration': 7.807}, {'end': 4486.43, 'text': "Well, what about the flip side? Maybe you're not sensitive to the creepy stare.", 'start': 4480.724, 'duration': 5.706}, {'end': 4487.711, 'text': 'Yeah, that also might be true.', 'start': 4486.71, 'duration': 1.001}, {'end': 4497.243, 'text': "The dude who's undressing you with his eyes that like in a creepy way, that you're just not, you don't like worry about it.", 'start': 4488.172, 'duration': 9.071}, {'end': 4504.909, 'text': "Or you're not touched, like the fear of that, the anxiety of that, the unpleasantness of that just doesn't hit you.", 'start': 4497.884, 'duration': 7.025}, {'end': 4508.612, 'text': "I think that's also at least part of it, maybe all of it.", 'start': 4505.27, 'duration': 3.342}, {'end': 4511.335, 'text': "Yeah Yeah, I think there's some evidence for it.", 'start': 4509.333, 'duration': 2.002}, {'end': 4515.098, 'text': "I think often like guys will do a thing to me and I'm just like, that's a thing, cool.", 'start': 4511.375, 'duration': 3.723}, {'end': 4517.359, 'text': "I don't have any negative response whatsoever.", 'start': 4515.398, 'duration': 1.961}, {'end': 4520.562, 'text': "That's.. Call back to the tire.", 'start': 4517.379, 'duration': 3.183}, {'end': 4521.183, 'text': "It's a thing.", 'start': 4520.702, 'duration': 0.481}, {'end': 4522.343, 'text': 'This is nice.', 'start': 4521.283, 'duration': 1.06}, {'end': 4523.043, 'text': 'That happened.', 'start': 4522.463, 'duration': 0.58}, {'end': 4524.324, 'text': "It's good to know that can happen.", 'start': 4523.203, 'duration': 1.121}, {'end': 4527.725, 'text': 'I once had a homeless guy ask me to come back to my place, baby.', 'start': 4524.464, 'duration': 3.261}, {'end': 4529.305, 'text': 'And I was like, this is fun.', 'start': 4527.785, 'duration': 1.52}, {'end': 4534.667, 'text': "I'm like, do you want me to? I love asking men, are you trying to get me to have sex with you? Just saying it out front.", 'start': 4529.325, 'duration': 5.342}, {'end': 4536.108, 'text': "And they'll be like, well.", 'start': 4535.067, 'duration': 1.041}, {'end': 4538.969, 'text': 'Usually they stop for a minute.', 'start': 4538.089, 'duration': 0.88}, {'end': 4541.71, 'text': "They're like, well, yeah, I would like to have sex.", 'start': 4538.989, 'duration': 2.721}, {'end': 4544.491, 'text': "And they'll be like, thanks for asking, but I'm not interested in having sex with you.", 'start': 4541.73, 'duration': 2.761}, {'end': 4546.645, 'text': 'Oh, you have a good day.', 'start': 4545.544, 'duration': 1.101}, {'end': 4547.886, 'text': 'And then I walk away.', 'start': 4546.665, 'duration': 1.221}, {'end': 4549.407, 'text': "And that's great.", 'start': 4548.886, 'duration': 0.521}, {'end': 4549.887, 'text': "I don't know.", 'start': 4549.507, 'duration': 0.38}, {'end': 4554.65, 'text': 'I have no issues with that interaction, but like maybe this is the kind of thing that other women would find to be really offensive.', 'start': 4549.907, 'duration': 4.743}, {'end': 4558.473, 'text': "So you have that conversation and it doesn't turn into like a threatening feel.", 'start': 4554.91, 'duration': 3.563}, {'end': 4559.833, 'text': 'No Like with a homeless guy.', 'start': 4558.793, 'duration': 1.04}, {'end': 4562.075, 'text': "No, I've never had that happen though.", 'start': 4560.294, 'duration': 1.781}, {'end': 4566.017, 'text': "But I think I'm doing something, again, this is accidental.", 'start': 4562.395, 'duration': 3.622}, {'end': 4567.938, 'text': 'I just am like this always.', 'start': 4566.137, 'duration': 1.801}, {'end': 4571, 'text': "I think I just happen to be like this at people and they don't expect it.", 'start': 4568.318, 'duration': 2.682}], 'summary': 'The speaker discusses her different experiences and reactions to interactions with men, suggesting that she may unintentionally give off signals that deter unwanted attention.', 'duration': 158.463, 'max_score': 4412.537, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc4412537.jpg'}, {'end': 4745.537, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 4695.051, 'weight': 5, 'content': [{'end': 4696.773, 'text': 'So maybe I have a certain level.', 'start': 4695.051, 'duration': 1.722}, {'end': 4699.375, 'text': 'Do other people have a lower level? Some people have higher level.', 'start': 4696.793, 'duration': 2.582}, {'end': 4712.346, 'text': "Is that a useful model of human beings? Or is it all ups and downs? There's no stable.", 'start': 4700.095, 'duration': 12.251}, {'end': 4713.107, 'text': "I don't know.", 'start': 4712.786, 'duration': 0.321}, {'end': 4716.83, 'text': "Some people just are happier than others in general and other people aren't.", 'start': 4713.167, 'duration': 3.663}, {'end': 4718.331, 'text': 'But then you also have ups and downs.', 'start': 4717.03, 'duration': 1.301}, {'end': 4721.534, 'text': "I'm sure you've experienced sadness sometimes and happiness the other times.", 'start': 4718.351, 'duration': 3.183}, {'end': 4730.234, 'text': "like if I actually were to integrate, so have an integral under the curve, the area under the curve, I don't know if I'm different than other people.", 'start': 4722.165, 'duration': 8.069}, {'end': 4735.7, 'text': "Maybe I'm just like really focused on the happy moments and maybe feel the down moments most intensely.", 'start': 4730.314, 'duration': 5.386}, {'end': 4739.685, 'text': "And maybe that, like on average, it's all the same.", 'start': 4735.72, 'duration': 3.965}, {'end': 4742.828, 'text': 'Is that possible? I mean, maybe.', 'start': 4739.705, 'duration': 3.123}, {'end': 4745.537, 'text': "I just, I don't know.", 'start': 4744.656, 'duration': 0.881}], 'summary': 'Exploring the variability of human happiness levels and the possibility of experiencing ups and downs', 'duration': 50.486, 'max_score': 4695.051, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc4695051.jpg'}], 'start': 3151.83, 'title': 'Sex work and employment struggles', 'summary': 'Covers the struggles of finding stable employment, the experience of a woman working as a cam girl, and the impact of sexual repression, emphasizing freedom and creativity in camming, mental toll, and proposed survey design for sex trafficking visibility.', 'chapters': [{'end': 3246.391, 'start': 3151.83, 'title': 'Struggles of finding employment', 'summary': 'Highlights the struggles of finding stable employment, including working in a factory with long hours, difficulties in transitioning to a different job, and challenges with self-employment.', 'duration': 94.561, 'highlights': ['The difficulty of finding stable employment is emphasized through experiences of working in a factory with early morning shifts, long hours, and a challenging work environment.', 'The challenges of transitioning to a different job are highlighted, including the struggles with self-employment and the difficulties in finding a suitable occupation after leaving the factory job.', 'The struggles of interacting with people outside of the homeschooling environment are outlined, including the impact of hierarchical submission and lack of confidence in social interactions.']}, {'end': 3618.099, 'start': 3246.471, 'title': 'Life as a cam girl', 'summary': 'Discusses the experience of a woman in her early adulthood working as a cam girl, touching on her reasons for entering the industry, her upbringing, and her exploration of sexuality and personal freedom.', 'duration': 371.628, 'highlights': ["The woman started working as a cam girl at 19 in Idaho, finding it as a way to gain control over her life and make actual money, leading her to become deeply involved in the industry. The woman's transition to camming provided her with a sense of control and financial independence, driving her deep involvement in the industry.", 'Having grown up in a conservative environment, she experienced a sense of liberation through rebellion, which initially manifested in seemingly innocuous acts like going outside late at night or eating chocolate, ultimately leading her to explore her sexuality and question societal norms. Her conservative upbringing led her to seek rebellion in seemingly harmless acts, eventually culminating in an exploration of her sexuality and a challenge to societal norms.', "The woman's exploration of sexuality and personal freedom included a period of casual sex with multiple partners, driven by her attempts to understand societal norms and expectations regarding sex and relationships. Her exploration led her to engage in casual sex with multiple partners as she sought to understand societal norms and expectations regarding sex and relationships."]}, {'end': 4096.287, 'start': 3619.588, 'title': 'Sex work, creativity, and freedom', 'summary': "Discusses the speaker's experience in sex work, emphasizing the impact of sexual repression, the freedom and creativity in camming, and the mental toll of the industry, including making around $200 per hour and the mental exhaustion of camming.", 'duration': 476.699, 'highlights': ['The speaker made around $200 an hour in camming, emphasizing the financial success in the industry. The speaker mentions making around $200 an hour in camming, highlighting the financial success and potential earnings in the industry.', 'The speaker emphasizes the mental exhaustion of camming, stating that it was very mentally taxing and led to a little PTSD around streaming. The speaker discusses the mental toll of camming, highlighting the exhausting nature of the work and the impact it had on their well-being, leading to a little PTSD around streaming.', 'The speaker describes the freedom and creativity in camming, mentioning that it allowed them to work on their own terms and be very successful in experimenting with elaborate routines. The speaker emphasizes the freedom and creativity in camming, highlighting the ability to work on their own terms and the success in experimenting with elaborate routines.']}, {'end': 4760.732, 'start': 4096.428, 'title': 'Camming, sex trafficking, and survey design', 'summary': 'Explores the ethical and quality issues in camming, the lack of data on sex trafficking, and proposes a survey design to measure the visibility of sex trafficking, while also discussing the impact of money on happiness.', 'duration': 664.304, 'highlights': ["The ethical and quality issues in camming, with lower standards and looser ethical boundaries in Eastern European models' studios. Lower quality and ethical boundaries in Eastern European models' studios, leading to less enthusiasm and care from the models.", 'The lack of reliable data on sex trafficking and the poor quality of existing research, leading to the proposal of a survey design to measure the visibility of sex trafficking. Lack of reliable data and poor quality of existing research on sex trafficking, prompting the proposal of a survey design to measure its visibility.', "Discussion on the impact of money on happiness, and the potential influence of genetic and environmental factors on an individual's baseline happiness. Exploration of the potential influence of money on reducing stress and the discussion on the stability of an individual's baseline happiness influenced by genetic and environmental factors."]}], 'duration': 1608.902, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc3151830.jpg', 'highlights': ['The struggles of interacting with people outside of the homeschooling environment are outlined, including the impact of hierarchical submission and lack of confidence in social interactions.', 'The challenges of transitioning to a different job are highlighted, including the struggles with self-employment and the difficulties in finding a suitable occupation after leaving the factory job.', 'The difficulty of finding stable employment is emphasized through experiences of working in a factory with early morning shifts, long hours, and a challenging work environment.', "The woman's exploration of sexuality and personal freedom included a period of casual sex with multiple partners, driven by her attempts to understand societal norms and expectations regarding sex and relationships.", 'Her conservative upbringing led her to seek rebellion in seemingly harmless acts, eventually culminating in an exploration of her sexuality and a challenge to societal norms.', 'The woman started working as a cam girl at 19 in Idaho, finding it as a way to gain control over her life and make actual money, leading her to become deeply involved in the industry.', 'The speaker emphasizes the mental exhaustion of camming, stating that it was very mentally taxing and led to a little PTSD around streaming.', 'The speaker mentions making around $200 an hour in camming, highlighting the financial success and potential earnings in the industry.', 'The speaker describes the freedom and creativity in camming, mentioning that it allowed them to work on their own terms and be very successful in experimenting with elaborate routines.', "Lower quality and ethical boundaries in Eastern European models' studios, leading to less enthusiasm and care from the models.", 'Lack of reliable data and poor quality of existing research on sex trafficking, prompting the proposal of a survey design to measure its visibility.', "Exploration of the potential influence of money on reducing stress and the discussion on the stability of an individual's baseline happiness influenced by genetic and environmental factors."]}, {'end': 6820.065, 'segs': [{'end': 5471.031, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 5441.66, 'weight': 3, 'content': [{'end': 5444.721, 'text': "what are ways that, like, I can't give?", 'start': 5441.66, 'duration': 3.061}, {'end': 5446.102, 'text': 'give people what they need that like.', 'start': 5444.721, 'duration': 1.381}, {'end': 5447.742, 'text': 'maybe they really want like.', 'start': 5446.102, 'duration': 1.64}, {'end': 5449.063, 'text': "i don't really i'm not very outdoorsy.", 'start': 5447.742, 'duration': 1.321}, {'end': 5450.363, 'text': 'it was just very common.', 'start': 5449.063, 'duration': 1.3}, {'end': 5451.324, 'text': 'a lot of people like being outdoorsy.', 'start': 5450.363, 'duration': 0.961}, {'end': 5455.565, 'text': "so i asked the question like how much do you value someone else that you're dating being outdoorsy?", 'start': 5451.324, 'duration': 4.241}, {'end': 5462.368, 'text': "if they marked yes, i was like, okay, we probably i should write down man, but doesn't polyamory make that really difficult?", 'start': 5455.565, 'duration': 6.803}, {'end': 5465.249, 'text': "because can't they find somebody for the outdoorsy stuff?", 'start': 5462.368, 'duration': 2.881}, {'end': 5465.889, 'text': 'yeah, they could.', 'start': 5465.249, 'duration': 0.64}, {'end': 5471.031, 'text': "i mean this isn't like, but if you're going to have somebody, it's like nicer to have them be more compatible than less.", 'start': 5465.889, 'duration': 5.142}], 'summary': 'Discussion on dating preferences, including outdoor activities and polyamory.', 'duration': 29.371, 'max_score': 5441.66, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc5441660.jpg'}, {'end': 5916.084, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 5888.411, 'weight': 1, 'content': [{'end': 5892.455, 'text': 'I use their information from the initial survey to inform the questions that I ask in the real survey.', 'start': 5888.411, 'duration': 4.044}, {'end': 5898.54, 'text': "And I haven't actually in recently, but I used to do a lot of like the text-based questions to see for similar,", 'start': 5892.995, 'duration': 5.545}, {'end': 5900.502, 'text': "although I don't think I relied on it quite as heavily.", 'start': 5898.54, 'duration': 1.962}, {'end': 5902.844, 'text': 'And if I introduced machine learning and things would be a lot more efficient.', 'start': 5900.642, 'duration': 2.202}, {'end': 5906.56, 'text': "I love that you're also doing, you're writing scripts and stuff.", 'start': 5903.819, 'duration': 2.741}, {'end': 5910.442, 'text': "You're doing some statistical analysis.", 'start': 5907.06, 'duration': 3.382}, {'end': 5912.903, 'text': 'Are you using Python mostly? Yeah.', 'start': 5910.502, 'duration': 2.401}, {'end': 5916.084, 'text': 'I had to learn Python for this just a couple months ago.', 'start': 5912.943, 'duration': 3.141}], 'summary': 'Using initial survey data to inform real survey questions, employing text-based questions for similarity, and introducing machine learning for efficiency, alongside python usage for statistical analysis.', 'duration': 27.673, 'max_score': 5888.411, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc5888411.jpg'}, {'end': 5950.562, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 5924.276, 'weight': 0, 'content': [{'end': 5928.34, 'text': "I'm just not motivated to learn something unless there's an actual curiosity I have, and I have to learn it and to solve it.", 'start': 5924.276, 'duration': 4.064}, {'end': 5933.145, 'text': 'I was trying to avoid learning coding for so long, but eventually it was my dataset became too large.', 'start': 5928.6, 'duration': 4.545}, {'end': 5935.087, 'text': "I couldn't work with it with anything else.", 'start': 5933.766, 'duration': 1.321}, {'end': 5937.43, 'text': 'So, oh, Python it is.', 'start': 5935.147, 'duration': 2.283}, {'end': 5940.433, 'text': "You know what's also an interesting dataset that you're probably interested in.", 'start': 5937.49, 'duration': 2.943}, {'end': 5942.074, 'text': 'a little bit is like Twitter itself, right?', 'start': 5940.433, 'duration': 1.641}, {'end': 5943.616, 'text': "I don't know if you've.", 'start': 5942.094, 'duration': 1.522}, {'end': 5945.198, 'text': "I've played with the Twitter API a lot.", 'start': 5943.616, 'duration': 1.582}, {'end': 5950.022, 'text': 'Can you just get the download the.', 'start': 5945.66, 'duration': 4.362}, {'end': 5950.562, 'text': "I'm just.", 'start': 5950.022, 'duration': 0.54}], 'summary': 'Lack of motivation until faced with large dataset, compelled to learn python. also interested in twitter api.', 'duration': 26.286, 'max_score': 5924.276, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc5924276.jpg'}, {'end': 5986.008, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 5962.948, 'weight': 2, 'content': [{'end': 5972.036, 'text': "There's like, I don't know, the number's insane, the number of interactions, but there's different ways to interact, to get data from Twitter.", 'start': 5962.948, 'duration': 9.088}, {'end': 5973.277, 'text': "There's streams you can look at.", 'start': 5972.076, 'duration': 1.201}, {'end': 5975.098, 'text': "It depends on what you're interested in.", 'start': 5973.297, 'duration': 1.801}, {'end': 5977.42, 'text': 'You can do results for searches.', 'start': 5975.619, 'duration': 1.801}, {'end': 5986.008, 'text': 'You can look at individual tweets and get entire which to me is super interesting the entire tree of different conversations, the replies,', 'start': 5977.52, 'duration': 8.488}], 'summary': 'Twitter offers various ways to interact and access data, including streams, search results, and individual tweets with entire conversations.', 'duration': 23.06, 'max_score': 5962.948, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc5962948.jpg'}, {'end': 6301.943, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 6272.159, 'weight': 4, 'content': [{'end': 6277.507, 'text': "Where's this mass manufacturer? Okay, if you want to mass manufacture your escrow.", 'start': 6272.159, 'duration': 5.348}, {'end': 6284.211, 'text': "I just feel like I haven't been getting, you know, I've been undervaluing my services and I would like to really step up.", 'start': 6277.527, 'duration': 6.684}, {'end': 6287.153, 'text': 'I think you could really just like grease some marketing gears and.', 'start': 6284.471, 'duration': 2.682}, {'end': 6290.255, 'text': 'Yeah I mean, some of this is marketing.', 'start': 6288.254, 'duration': 2.001}, {'end': 6291.216, 'text': 'So, like how?', 'start': 6290.455, 'duration': 0.761}, {'end': 6294.898, 'text': 'I guess I want to like, know, is it similar to camming in that way??', 'start': 6291.216, 'duration': 3.682}, {'end': 6295.939, 'text': 'Like, is it?', 'start': 6294.979, 'duration': 0.96}, {'end': 6301.943, 'text': "um, you're basically advertising yourself and you're, uh, like the marketing.", 'start': 6295.939, 'duration': 6.004}], 'summary': 'Discussion about mass manufacturing, undervaluing services, and marketing strategies.', 'duration': 29.784, 'max_score': 6272.159, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc6272159.jpg'}], 'start': 4760.752, 'title': 'Effective strategies in sexuality marketing and relationships', 'summary': 'Discusses successful marketing strategies for onlyfans resulting in a 100k income, the dynamics of creative sexuality in advertising, romantic ideas and relationship goals, efficient dating surveys for successful matches, and designing effective surveys for human interaction.', 'chapters': [{'end': 4832.814, 'start': 4760.752, 'title': 'Marketing strategies for onlyfans success', 'summary': 'Discusses a successful marketing strategy for onlyfans, highlighting the use of external platforms such as reddit and twitter, resulting in a 100k income and the importance of building a strong online presence.', 'duration': 72.062, 'highlights': ['Using external platforms like Reddit and Twitter for marketing led to a 100K income on OnlyFans.', 'Having a pre-existing presence on platforms like Reddit and Twitter significantly contributed to successful conversion on OnlyFans.', 'Utilizing external websites for marketing due to the lack of internal discovery on OnlyFans.', 'The importance of having a strong presence on external platforms such as Reddit, Twitter, FetLife, Instagram, and TikTok for successful conversion on OnlyFans.']}, {'end': 5091.569, 'start': 4832.874, 'title': 'Creative sexuality in advertising', 'summary': 'Explores the concept of creative sexuality in advertising, discussing the success of unique ideas and the dynamics of sex advertising, including insights on the preferences of the audience and the impact of power dynamics on advertising effectiveness.', 'duration': 258.695, 'highlights': ['The most successful frames in advertising were where the man was framed as passive and the woman as active, such as scenarios where the woman desperately needs the man, which were much more successful in appealing to the widest group of people. The chapter discusses the success of frames in advertising, highlighting that scenarios where the man is framed as passive and the woman as active were much more successful in appealing to the widest group of people.', 'Insights on the preferences of the audience reveal that guys are less into power dynamics than women, and the most effective advertising strategy to make 100K a month is not particularly submissive, as it appeals to the widest group of people. The chapter provides insights on the preferences of the audience, indicating that guys are less into power dynamics than women, and the most effective advertising strategy to make 100K a month is not particularly submissive, as it appeals to the widest group of people.', 'Discussion on the success of the unique idea of self-molestation as a mime, which turned out to be quite a viral hit in sex advertising. The chapter discusses the success of the unique idea of self-molestation as a mime, highlighting that it turned out to be quite a viral hit in sex advertising.']}, {'end': 5390.694, 'start': 5092.509, 'title': 'Romantic ideas and relationship goals', 'summary': 'Discusses the intimacy of listening to podcasts together, the concept of relationship goals, and the challenges of using applications for dating and hiring, highlighting the preference for monogamous relationships and the impact of high volume filtering.', 'duration': 298.185, 'highlights': ['Couples listening to podcasts together is considered intensely romantic as it involves sharing thoughts and going through the same kind of thought process at the same time.', 'The preference for monogamous relationships is highlighted, with the acknowledgment that statistically, most women may desire such relationships.', 'The challenges of using applications for dating and hiring are discussed, emphasizing the anti-romantic nature of high volume filtering and the potential loss of truly special connections due to the necessity of filtering.', 'The chapter explores the concept of intimacy in relationships, particularly through activities such as listening to podcasts together and the desire for monogamous, committed relationships.']}, {'end': 5627.265, 'start': 5391.014, 'title': 'Efficient dating survey for successful matches', 'summary': 'Discusses using a survey to efficiently filter potential dates based on compatibility, leading to a successful long-term relationship, and the importance of creating a concise and non-overlapping survey for effective filtering.', 'duration': 236.251, 'highlights': ['Using a survey to efficiently filter potential dates based on compatibility led to a successful long-term relationship. The survey helped in selecting a compatible date, resulting in a successful long-term relationship.', 'The importance of creating a concise and non-overlapping survey for effective filtering as it led to successful matches. Creating a concise and non-overlapping survey is crucial for effective filtering and successful matches.', 'The survey included questions about basic life stuff, sexual compatibility, and personality to determine compatibility. The survey covered topics related to basic life stuff, sexual compatibility, and personality to determine compatibility.', 'Efficiency was important in the survey to attract more participants and increase the chance of finding a compatible match. Efficiency in the survey attracted more participants and increased the chance of finding a compatible match.', 'The survey was designed to have the minimum possible questions that give the maximum possible filtering information. The survey was designed to have the minimum number of questions for maximum filtering information.']}, {'end': 6162.586, 'start': 5628.254, 'title': 'Designing effective surveys for human interaction', 'summary': 'Delves into the challenges of survey design for human interaction, emphasizing the use of predictive questions, text-based inputs, and the potential applications of machine learning in processing dating surveys on twitter.', 'duration': 534.332, 'highlights': ['The speaker discusses the ability to predict interest in power dynamics through survey questions, highlighting the importance of predictive questions in survey design.', 'The potential bias of the speaker in designing surveys is revealed, emphasizing the need for effective survey design to avoid biased filters in partner selection.', 'The use of text-based inputs and machine learning models to process dating survey applications more efficiently and gain insights into applicant interaction and sentiment is discussed, highlighting the potential of machine learning in survey processing.', 'The speaker explains the use of long-form text input in survey design to understand applicant reasoning, revealing the value of text input in informing the questions asked in the real survey.', "The potential of Twitter as a dataset for studying human interaction, including the ability to analyze conversations, sentiment, and the virality of drama or conflict, is highlighted, emphasizing the platform's potential for research and innovation in studying human interaction."]}, {'end': 6820.065, 'start': 6162.846, 'title': 'Escorting in sex work', 'summary': 'Explores the transition from camming to escorting, discussing the process of getting into escorting, the competitive dynamics, marketing strategies, pricing, and the effect of money on the dynamics of casual sex, highlighting the impact on interactions, customer satisfaction, and personal fulfillment.', 'duration': 657.219, 'highlights': ['Escort Transition and Getting Started The speaker transitioned from camming to escorting due to burnout, with a friend outlining the basics, and subsequently achieving success through aggressive marketing strategies.', "Competitive Dynamics and Marketing Escorting is less competitive than camming, with limited visibility into competitors' strategies, allowing for the speaker's successful application of aggressive marketing skills.", 'Pricing Strategy and Customer Dynamics The speaker raised her rates to $1400 per hour, emphasizing the impact of pricing on encountering safer clients and incentivizing longer interactions with more respectful customers.', 'Effect of Money on Casual Sex Dynamics The introduction of money as a filter for serious interactions alleviated anxiety and allowed for the speaker to enjoy casual sex by removing concerns about reputation and status, thereby incentivizing genuine personal fulfillment.', 'Personal Fulfillment and Authentic Interactions Engaging in escorting as a side activity, independent of financial necessity, enabled the speaker to express genuine preferences, leading to more fulfilling and authentic interactions.']}], 'duration': 2059.313, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc4760752.jpg', 'highlights': ['Using external platforms like Reddit and Twitter for marketing led to a 100K income on OnlyFans.', 'The most successful frames in advertising were where the man was framed as passive and the woman as active.', 'Couples listening to podcasts together is considered intensely romantic.', 'Using a survey to efficiently filter potential dates based on compatibility led to a successful long-term relationship.', 'The speaker discusses the ability to predict interest in power dynamics through survey questions.', 'Escort Transition and Getting Started The speaker transitioned from camming to escorting due to burnout.']}, {'end': 8406.376, 'segs': [{'end': 6959.323, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 6921.311, 'weight': 1, 'content': [{'end': 6929.316, 'text': "Yeah I know that it's brief and I know that it's kind of weird, but there's a real glimpse into somebody's soul when you get to be intimate.", 'start': 6921.311, 'duration': 8.005}, {'end': 6935.22, 'text': "And I think this is especially true for men because a lot of time men don't have a way to be really vulnerable in front of anybody.", 'start': 6929.616, 'duration': 5.604}, {'end': 6941.404, 'text': "But if you're in bed with a woman that you find to be attractive, you can sort of let loose a little bit more.", 'start': 6935.7, 'duration': 5.704}, {'end': 6943.446, 'text': 'So they can become vulnerable in general quickly.', 'start': 6941.624, 'duration': 1.822}, {'end': 6945.028, 'text': 'Yeah And I really like that.', 'start': 6943.506, 'duration': 1.522}, {'end': 6947.03, 'text': 'I like being as vulnerable as I can to match it.', 'start': 6945.088, 'duration': 1.942}, {'end': 6948.592, 'text': "I'm not forcing myself or anything,", 'start': 6947.19, 'duration': 1.402}, {'end': 6957.321, 'text': 'but I just feel into it and notice how beautiful the person was and feel grateful for being able to be in this intimate experience with them.', 'start': 6948.592, 'duration': 8.729}, {'end': 6959.323, 'text': 'And that was so wonderful.', 'start': 6958.142, 'duration': 1.181}], 'summary': 'Intimacy allows vulnerability and gratitude, enhancing the experience for men and women.', 'duration': 38.012, 'max_score': 6921.311, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc6921311.jpg'}, {'end': 7124.083, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 7090.17, 'weight': 3, 'content': [{'end': 7096.032, 'text': "Like I'm able to step away and objectively look at myself as like, there's no, it's just, you're fine, you're good.", 'start': 7090.17, 'duration': 5.862}, {'end': 7101.173, 'text': "It's like, but it's still there, this is the part of the brain that you can't just shut off.", 'start': 7096.052, 'duration': 5.121}, {'end': 7104.726, 'text': 'Does. it is like what would fucking up in this conversation look like?', 'start': 7101.903, 'duration': 2.823}, {'end': 7110.611, 'text': "Like it doesn't have to be rational, but I'm curious if there's like a specific thing.", 'start': 7106.747, 'duration': 3.864}, {'end': 7124.083, 'text': 'A lot of it is just a, a feeling like an amorphous fear of failure, what it would actually look like.', 'start': 7116.196, 'duration': 7.887}], 'summary': 'Struggling with fear of failure and self-doubt in a conversation.', 'duration': 33.913, 'max_score': 7090.17, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc7090170.jpg'}, {'end': 7205.518, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 7174.045, 'weight': 4, 'content': [{'end': 7175.947, 'text': 'I interact with the world in the space of feelings.', 'start': 7174.045, 'duration': 1.902}, {'end': 7181.612, 'text': "Maybe I'm almost afraid to be very rigorous with these kinds of thoughts.", 'start': 7176.928, 'duration': 4.684}, {'end': 7191.872, 'text': "And so I think the failure would be like, I would be confronted with the fact that I can't explain what makes me happy, that could be a failure.", 'start': 7182.332, 'duration': 9.54}, {'end': 7194.153, 'text': 'And there could be just a bunch of other failures.', 'start': 7192.572, 'duration': 1.581}, {'end': 7199.835, 'text': "Another big failure is like not, I think you're a really brilliant person.", 'start': 7194.753, 'duration': 5.082}, {'end': 7205.518, 'text': 'And a lot of folks I know know and admire your work as well.', 'start': 7201.236, 'duration': 4.282}], 'summary': 'Struggles with articulating feelings and fear of failure.', 'duration': 31.473, 'max_score': 7174.045, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc7174045.jpg'}, {'end': 8020.952, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 7994.042, 'weight': 2, 'content': [{'end': 7997.262, 'text': "Okay, sandwich, we'll just call it sandwich, L-S.", 'start': 7994.042, 'duration': 3.22}, {'end': 8004.854, 'text': 'Okay, what role does that play in the human condition? keep asking about the human condition.', 'start': 7997.763, 'duration': 7.091}, {'end': 8006.056, 'text': "It's an interesting phrase.", 'start': 8004.875, 'duration': 1.181}, {'end': 8010.24, 'text': "I'm like, this is not a phrase that's common in my own thinking.", 'start': 8006.076, 'duration': 4.164}, {'end': 8014.665, 'text': 'Sure Human condition is a good summary.', 'start': 8011.462, 'duration': 3.203}, {'end': 8020.952, 'text': 'What do you think? What do you feel when I say human condition? I think I ask very different kinds of questions than you.', 'start': 8015.986, 'duration': 4.966}], 'summary': "Exploring the concept of the human condition through a discussion about the role of a 'sandwich', l-s.", 'duration': 26.91, 'max_score': 7994.042, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc7994042.jpg'}, {'end': 8112.571, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 8078.422, 'weight': 0, 'content': [{'end': 8079.203, 'text': 'To ask enough people.', 'start': 8078.422, 'duration': 0.781}, {'end': 8087.154, 'text': "All right, but does that really tell the story of what you've felt over the past year? That's that's true.", 'start': 8079.223, 'duration': 7.931}, {'end': 8088.555, 'text': 'But then I could just tell you, okay.', 'start': 8087.174, 'duration': 1.381}, {'end': 8092.079, 'text': "So by by when you're saying the kinds of questions that you like, the ones that don't have an answer.", 'start': 8088.575, 'duration': 3.504}, {'end': 8097.786, 'text': "by not an answer you mean like not an answer, where you can know that you're done telling it.", 'start': 8092.079, 'duration': 5.707}, {'end': 8102.231, 'text': 'Is that you can escape having to think by actually answering it.', 'start': 8098.367, 'duration': 3.864}, {'end': 8103.172, 'text': 'I see.', 'start': 8102.892, 'duration': 0.28}, {'end': 8106.236, 'text': 'Yeah The struggle.', 'start': 8104.414, 'duration': 1.822}, {'end': 8112.571, 'text': 'is the place where we discover something, not the destination.', 'start': 8107.589, 'duration': 4.982}], 'summary': 'Discussions emphasized the value of asking open-ended questions to encourage introspection and discovery.', 'duration': 34.149, 'max_score': 8078.422, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc8078422.jpg'}, {'end': 8378.987, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 8354.525, 'weight': 8, 'content': [{'end': 8362.291, 'text': "Yeah, so at the orgies, it's like you, by entering, if you wear a wristband, then you are by default opting into consent.", 'start': 8354.525, 'duration': 7.766}, {'end': 8369.098, 'text': "So people don't have to do a thing where they negotiate with you and be like, is this okay? It's just the default is you just go for it.", 'start': 8362.392, 'duration': 6.706}, {'end': 8373.222, 'text': "And if they want you to stop, they say the safe word, like red, don't, and then you have to stop.", 'start': 8369.558, 'duration': 3.664}, {'end': 8378.987, 'text': 'And we do exercise in the beginning of people saying red to make sure that everybody knows exactly what the rules are.', 'start': 8374.123, 'duration': 4.864}], 'summary': "Orgy events use wristbands for consent. safe word 'red' is used for stopping. exercise ensures everyone knows the rules.", 'duration': 24.462, 'max_score': 8354.525, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc8354525.jpg'}], 'start': 6820.605, 'title': 'Exploring intimacy, emotions, and love', 'summary': 'Delves into the dynamics of intimacy and vulnerability in professional relationships, expressing emotions while maintaining rationality, and discussing tabooed topics such as love and polyamory. it also includes insights from a sexuality expert and features a survey on the complexity of love, providing a comprehensive exploration of these themes within professional and personal contexts.', 'chapters': [{'end': 6959.323, 'start': 6820.605, 'title': 'Intimacy and vulnerability in professional relationships', 'summary': 'Discusses the experiences of a sexuality expert in professional relationships, touching on the dynamics of intimacy, vulnerability, and love with clients, along with insights into the high-end rates and the unique connections formed, exemplified by a touching encounter with a terminally ill client.', 'duration': 138.718, 'highlights': ['The high-end rates for this job can reach up to $2000 an hour, indicating the lucrative nature of the profession.', 'The interviewee has experienced clients falling in love with them, but believes it occurs less frequently due to subconscious signaling, offering an intriguing perspective on the dynamics of client relationships.', 'The interviewee shares a poignant encounter with a terminally ill client, illustrating the depth of intimacy and vulnerability experienced in their profession, showcasing the profound impact of their work on a personal level.', 'The interviewee highlights the unique opportunity for men to express vulnerability and intimacy in professional relationships, emphasizing the significance of these connections.']}, {'end': 7641.03, 'start': 6960.404, 'title': 'Expressing emotions and rationality', 'summary': "Discusses the struggle of expressing emotions while balancing rationality, highlighting the fear of failure and the importance of integrating curiosity, emotions, and rationality, ultimately revealing the practice of 'circling' for authentic and honest connections.", 'duration': 680.626, 'highlights': ['The struggle of expressing emotions while balancing rationality The individual expresses fear of failure and anxiety about social interaction, highlighting the challenge of integrating emotions and rationality.', 'Importance of integrating curiosity, emotions, and rationality The speaker emphasizes the significance of integrating curiosity, emotions, and rationality, rejecting the idea of pitting emotion and rationality against each other.', "The practice of 'circling' for authentic and honest connections The conversation introduces the practice of 'circling,' emphasizing honesty, connection, and understanding while discussing experiences in the present moment."]}, {'end': 7892.944, 'start': 7641.05, 'title': 'Sexuality and love: a conversation', 'summary': 'Discusses a conversation about sexuality and love at a party, detailing a potentially uncomfortable encounter and a tabooed discussion on the concept of love, including its various aspects and implications.', 'duration': 251.894, 'highlights': ['The chapter recounts a potentially uncomfortable encounter at a party where a conversation turned sexual, leading to an interpretation of discomfort and potential misinterpretation of social cues. The speaker recalls an encounter at a party where a conversation turned sexual, potentially leading to discomfort and misinterpretation of social cues.', 'The discussion delves into the tabooed concept of love, dissecting its various aspects including intense attachment, soulful alignment, sexual attraction, and excitement, ultimately leading to a debate on the implications of romantic love and deep connections. The conversation delves into the tabooed concept of love, dissecting its various aspects including intense attachment, soulful alignment, sexual attraction, and excitement, ultimately leading to a debate on the implications of romantic love and deep connections.', 'The conversation also explores the blurred lines between romantic relationships and deep friendships, contemplating the possibility of deep connections without sexual relationships and emphasizing the potential and statistical likelihood of various scenarios. The conversation explores the blurred lines between romantic relationships and deep friendships, contemplating the possibility of deep connections without sexual relationships and emphasizing the potential and statistical likelihood of various scenarios.']}, {'end': 8406.376, 'start': 7893.424, 'title': 'Redefining love and polyamory', 'summary': 'Explores the complexity of love, questioning its definition and longevity, backed by survey data, and delves into the concept of polyamory, discussing freedom and dynamics, while also touching on hosting orgies with a focus on consent and safety.', 'duration': 512.952, 'highlights': ["The word 'love' is very confusing as the initial sparkle fades within two to four years, but people still report loving their partner after that based on a relationship study. Survey data supports the claim that the initial sparkle of love fades within two to four years, yet people continue to report loving their partner, questioning the definition and longevity of love.", 'The concept of polyamory is defined as not forbidding a partner from pursuing intimacy with others, emphasizing the freedom in relationships. Polyamory is defined as allowing partners to pursue intimacy with others, highlighting the freedom in relationships, with an emphasis on not forbidding such pursuits.', 'The dynamics of hosting orgies are discussed, focusing on consent and safety, with an emphasis on default consent and the use of safe words for communication. The discussion includes the dynamics of hosting orgies, emphasizing consent and safety, particularly the concept of default consent and the use of safe words for communication and ensuring a safe environment.']}], 'duration': 1585.771, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc6820605.jpg', 'highlights': ['The interviewee shares a poignant encounter with a terminally ill client, illustrating the depth of intimacy and vulnerability experienced in their profession, showcasing the profound impact of their work on a personal level.', 'The interviewee highlights the unique opportunity for men to express vulnerability and intimacy in professional relationships, emphasizing the significance of these connections.', 'The struggle of expressing emotions while balancing rationality The individual expresses fear of failure and anxiety about social interaction, highlighting the challenge of integrating emotions and rationality.', 'Importance of integrating curiosity, emotions, and rationality The speaker emphasizes the significance of integrating curiosity, emotions, and rationality, rejecting the idea of pitting emotion and rationality against each other.', "The practice of 'circling' for authentic and honest connections The conversation introduces the practice of 'circling,' emphasizing honesty, connection, and understanding while discussing experiences in the present moment.", 'The conversation delves into the tabooed concept of love, dissecting its various aspects including intense attachment, soulful alignment, sexual attraction, and excitement, ultimately leading to a debate on the implications of romantic love and deep connections.', 'The conversation also explores the blurred lines between romantic relationships and deep friendships, contemplating the possibility of deep connections without sexual relationships and emphasizing the potential and statistical likelihood of various scenarios.', 'Survey data supports the claim that the initial sparkle of love fades within two to four years, yet people continue to report loving their partner, questioning the definition and longevity of love.', 'The concept of polyamory is defined as allowing partners to pursue intimacy with others, highlighting the freedom in relationships, with an emphasis on not forbidding such pursuits.', 'The discussion includes the dynamics of hosting orgies, emphasizing consent and safety, particularly the concept of default consent and the use of safe words for communication and ensuring a safe environment.']}, {'end': 9803.629, 'segs': [{'end': 8555.442, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 8525.831, 'weight': 2, 'content': [{'end': 8528.932, 'text': "Because I can't predict at the time if this small feeling I have is going to grow.", 'start': 8525.831, 'duration': 3.101}, {'end': 8531.953, 'text': "Then when I grow it, now it's much more difficult to deal with.", 'start': 8528.952, 'duration': 3.001}, {'end': 8535.914, 'text': "Now it's like any little bit of jealousy I have immediately communicated.", 'start': 8533.253, 'duration': 2.661}, {'end': 8537.754, 'text': "I'm like, I'm a little jealous of you right now.", 'start': 8535.934, 'duration': 1.82}, {'end': 8540.355, 'text': "I don't hold that in at all.", 'start': 8538.054, 'duration': 2.301}, {'end': 8544.356, 'text': 'Back when I first started being poly, I used to try to pretend that I was not a jealous person.', 'start': 8541.175, 'duration': 3.181}, {'end': 8546.356, 'text': 'backfired quite a lot.', 'start': 8545.615, 'duration': 0.741}, {'end': 8546.936, 'text': "That's really interesting.", 'start': 8546.376, 'duration': 0.56}, {'end': 8548.918, 'text': 'So you do still feel jealousy? Oh, yeah, definitely.', 'start': 8546.956, 'duration': 1.962}, {'end': 8555.442, 'text': "And like, and it's also interesting that you kind of recommend when there's a little bit of jealousy, like to bring that to the surface.", 'start': 8549.178, 'duration': 6.264}], 'summary': 'Polyamorous individual openly communicates and handles jealousy, acknowledging its presence and addressing it as it arises.', 'duration': 29.611, 'max_score': 8525.831, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc8525831.jpg'}, {'end': 9116.487, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 9085.636, 'weight': 4, 'content': [{'end': 9089.072, 'text': "It's just like, Well, I know what I love.", 'start': 9085.636, 'duration': 3.436}, {'end': 9092.213, 'text': 'So you explore every once in a while.', 'start': 9089.872, 'duration': 2.341}, {'end': 9094.335, 'text': 'Yeah, and you kind of figure that out.', 'start': 9092.894, 'duration': 1.441}, {'end': 9098.617, 'text': "But at the same time, you're humbled by like even talking to you or looking at your data.", 'start': 9095.115, 'duration': 3.502}, {'end': 9107.022, 'text': "Like sexuality is a fascinating topic because it seems that we're very, like we were talking about, very afraid of this topic.", 'start': 9098.657, 'duration': 8.365}, {'end': 9109.825, 'text': 'like to be really honest with ourselves about it.', 'start': 9107.844, 'duration': 1.981}, {'end': 9116.487, 'text': "The whole like academic research is afraid of it, but it's so core to who we are as human beings.", 'start': 9110.465, 'duration': 6.022}], 'summary': 'Exploring sexuality is core to human beings, but academia is hesitant to research it.', 'duration': 30.851, 'max_score': 9085.636, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc9085636.jpg'}, {'end': 9292.507, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 9246.456, 'weight': 0, 'content': [{'end': 9249.538, 'text': 'But then on the far side of that, I mean, it gets pretty dark.', 'start': 9246.456, 'duration': 3.082}, {'end': 9264.839, 'text': 'But even all along the way, extreme bondage, being at 50, taboo-ness, pegging, pain, giving pain, sexual frustration, I suppose, as a kink.', 'start': 9250.865, 'duration': 13.974}, {'end': 9270.8, 'text': "There's so many interesting ones to me just that I haven't even considered.", 'start': 9267.159, 'duration': 3.641}, {'end': 9276.702, 'text': 'Yeah I had to do so much research into fetishes to compile the list.', 'start': 9271.861, 'duration': 4.841}, {'end': 9281.324, 'text': "Are there some surprising options to you that you're like, okay, this is a fetish.", 'start': 9277.002, 'duration': 4.322}, {'end': 9287.846, 'text': "Yeah Well, more confusing was what the fetishes are about because I didn't want to overlap fetishes, so I had to look into them.", 'start': 9281.584, 'duration': 6.262}, {'end': 9292.507, 'text': "And I'm like, there's like such interesting manifestations of core drives.", 'start': 9288.586, 'duration': 3.921}], 'summary': 'Researching fetishes led to discovering surprising and interesting manifestations of core drives.', 'duration': 46.051, 'max_score': 9246.456, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc9246456.jpg'}, {'end': 9442.379, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 9412.327, 'weight': 3, 'content': [{'end': 9417.029, 'text': 'Maybe it has to do with, maybe you can actually form and unform that fetish very quickly.', 'start': 9412.327, 'duration': 4.702}, {'end': 9417.689, 'text': "I don't know.", 'start': 9417.049, 'duration': 0.64}, {'end': 9420.551, 'text': "This is one of the things that I'm researching.", 'start': 9418.87, 'duration': 1.681}, {'end': 9424.273, 'text': "So in the big survey that I'm doing, I asked so many questions about childhood.", 'start': 9420.591, 'duration': 3.682}, {'end': 9428.215, 'text': 'All the ones that I think, like we have common theories about, like oh, are you abused??', 'start': 9424.313, 'duration': 3.902}, {'end': 9429.816, 'text': 'Is it yelled at by a man or a woman?', 'start': 9428.355, 'duration': 1.461}, {'end': 9431.756, 'text': 'um, stuff like that, like, are you?', 'start': 9430.556, 'duration': 1.2}, {'end': 9433.077, 'text': 'is it really sexually repressive?', 'start': 9431.756, 'duration': 1.321}, {'end': 9437.177, 'text': "you know, is it gender roles where you've expected to conform a whole bunch of stuff?", 'start': 9433.077, 'duration': 4.1}, {'end': 9442.379, 'text': 'and then i asked you know obviously, about like a massive amount of fetishes, and my sample size right now is 500, 000 people, 500.', 'start': 9437.177, 'duration': 5.202}], 'summary': 'Researching impact of childhood experiences on fetishes in a survey of 500,000 people.', 'duration': 30.052, 'max_score': 9412.327, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc9412327.jpg'}, {'end': 9739.999, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 9714.181, 'weight': 5, 'content': [{'end': 9719.284, 'text': 'I did a couple of questions where I asked, detailed in the survey, but also the beginning of the survey,', 'start': 9714.181, 'duration': 5.103}, {'end': 9722.287, 'text': 'just to see what cap percentage of people I was capturing.', 'start': 9719.284, 'duration': 3.003}, {'end': 9726.029, 'text': 'And then I scored the survey.', 'start': 9724.248, 'duration': 1.781}, {'end': 9733.154, 'text': 'So if you take it, I had other people answer preliminary surveys where they gave me data about how taboo the various fetishes were.', 'start': 9726.15, 'duration': 7.004}, {'end': 9736.556, 'text': 'And then I used that data so that when you fill out the survey,', 'start': 9733.615, 'duration': 2.941}, {'end': 9739.999, 'text': "it's extremely comprehensive and you get data about exactly 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protect the relationship.', 'duration': 89.083, 'highlights': ['The experience of both orgies and one-on-one sex can be like having sex with someone while being surrounded by realistic VR porn of other people having sex, creating a high variety of experiences.', "The speaker shares their personal experience of being part of a 10 woman orgy, describing it as a 'rising cluster' and 'very nice.'", 'In polyamorous relationships, it is common to have a main partner, but the speaker explains that they do not usually have rules to protect that status, except in specific situations such as buying a house together.', 'The concept of having a main partner in a polyamorous relationship is discussed, with the speaker describing their current situation of having two partners, one of whom is descriptively their primary partner.', 'The dynamics of orgies are described, with the speaker noting that usually, there are different little clusters of people having their experiences rather than a large group in one cluster.']}, {'end': 8940.752, 'start': 8496.464, 'title': 'Open communication in polyamorous relationships', 'summary': 'Discusses the importance of open communication and transparency in polyamorous relationships, emphasizing the need to address small feelings of jealousy, the value of not seeking reassurance, and the challenges of default monogamy in society.', 'duration': 444.288, 'highlights': ['The value of addressing small feelings of jealousy and the importance of excessive communication, even if it feels trivial, to prevent it from growing into a larger issue. Emphasizes the need to address small feelings of jealousy to prevent them from growing; stresses the importance of excessive communication, even if it feels trivial.', 'The preference for not seeking reassurance in relationships and the belief that it is essential to deal with insecurities independently rather than seeking comfort. Expresses the preference for not seeking reassurance in relationships; emphasizes the importance of dealing with insecurities independently.', 'Challenges the default adoption of monogamous relationships and the lack of exploration of alternative relationship structures due to societal norms. Critiques the default adoption of monogamous relationships and the lack of exploration of alternative relationship structures due to societal norms.']}, {'end': 9219, 'start': 8941.713, 'title': 'Monogamy vs polyamory', 'summary': 'Explores the natural inclination towards polyamory as a default, backed by evidence of higher rates of cheating in men, challenges in long-term monogamous relationships, and societal taboos around sexual interests.', 'duration': 277.287, 'highlights': ["Men cheat about 30% more than women in relationships, and predictions about partner's infidelity differ between genders. The data reveals a 30% higher rate of cheating in men compared to women, along with gender differences in predicting partner infidelity, shedding light on the challenges of monogamy in long-term relationships.", 'Societal taboos and perceptions influence the popularity of various sexual interests, with less taboo activities being more popular. The survey data indicates a correlation between the taboo-ness of sexual interests and their popularity, with less taboo activities such as missionary position and blowjobs being more popular than taboo activities like cuddling, providing insights into societal attitudes towards sexual preferences.', 'The conversation delves into the challenges of imagining a polyamorous relationship, highlighting personal assumptions and the need for open-mindedness. The dialogue uncovers personal challenges in envisioning a polyamorous relationship, emphasizing the importance of open-mindedness and the acknowledgment of ingrained assumptions, fostering a deeper understanding of diverse relationship dynamics.']}, {'end': 9555.683, 'start': 9219.04, 'title': 'Understanding fetishes and their origins', 'summary': 'Delves into the study of fetishes, exploring various preferences and their correlations, with a focus on the lack of correlation between childhood experiences and fetishes, as well as the surprising findings related to non-cis individuals.', 'duration': 336.643, 'highlights': ['There is no correlation between childhood experiences and fetish preference later in life, based on a sample size of 500,000 people. The lack of correlation between childhood experiences and fetish preference is highlighted, based on a substantial sample size of 500,000 people, indicating a significant finding in the study.', "Non-cis individuals show a correlation between childhood experiences and sexuality later in life, unlike cis individuals. Non-cis individuals, particularly trans men, exhibit a correlation between childhood experiences and sexuality later in life, in contrast to the lack of correlation observed in cis individuals, presenting an intriguing difference in the study's findings.", "Earlier onset of a fetish corresponds to a greater reported interest in the fetish, based on the study's observations. Observations from the study indicate that individuals with an earlier onset of a fetish are more likely to report a higher level of interest in the fetish, providing insights into the relationship between onset and passion for fetishes."]}, {'end': 9803.629, 'start': 9555.683, 'title': 'Methodology for conducting fetish survey', 'summary': 'Discusses the methodology used to conduct a comprehensive survey on fetishes, including the challenges of categorizing and obtaining responses from a large number of participants, resulting in over 500,000 responses, along with the use of scoring and gamification to incentivize participation and provide data on the taboo level of interests.', 'duration': 247.946, 'highlights': ['Conducting a comprehensive survey on fetishes resulted in over 500,000 responses, necessitating a methodology to categorize and obtain responses from a large number of participants.', 'Challenges included categorizing the numerous fetishes and obtaining accurate responses, requiring two months of agonizing over each fetish to avoid miscategorization.', 'Methodology involved asking overarching questions to accurately feed participants into the right subpart of the survey, which was extremely difficult when dealing with around 850 fetishes.', 'Spot checking and scoring the survey, along with gamification by assigning an equivalent kinky character to each participant, incentivized participation and provided data on the taboo level of interests.', "The use of scoring and gamification made the survey more fun and led to participants sharing their results with others, with historic and fictional characters being matched to participants' scores."]}], 'duration': 1396.248, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc8407381.jpg', 'highlights': ['The dynamics of orgies are described, noting different little clusters of people having their experiences.', 'In polyamorous relationships, it is common to have a main partner, but rules to protect that status are not usually in place.', 'The value of addressing small feelings of jealousy and the importance of excessive communication to prevent it from growing into a larger issue.', 'Men cheat about 30% more than women in relationships, shedding light on the challenges of monogamy in long-term relationships.', 'The lack of correlation between childhood experiences and fetish preference later in life, based on a sample size of 500,000 people, indicating a significant finding in the study.', 'Conducting a comprehensive survey on fetishes resulted in over 500,000 responses, necessitating a methodology to categorize and obtain responses from a large number of participants.']}, {'end': 10597.078, 'segs': [{'end': 9862.959, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 9840.132, 'weight': 4, 'content': [{'end': 9847.596, 'text': "Young people are probably better for this kind of survey because there's probably a culture that's a little bit more honest about their sexuality.", 'start': 9840.132, 'duration': 7.464}, {'end': 9849.27, 'text': 'Yeah, most likely.', 'start': 9848.429, 'duration': 0.841}, {'end': 9853.272, 'text': "I think people are incentivized to be honest when they're getting a true identity response out of it.", 'start': 9849.33, 'duration': 3.942}, {'end': 9856.935, 'text': "If you're doing it for money, you don't care.", 'start': 9854.213, 'duration': 2.722}, {'end': 9862.959, 'text': 'But if you are invested in the result, you want to know what the truth of the answers are, then you actually..', 'start': 9856.995, 'duration': 5.964}], 'summary': 'Young people are more honest in surveys about sexuality, likely due to cultural factors and genuine interest in the results.', 'duration': 22.827, 'max_score': 9840.132, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc9840132.jpg'}, {'end': 10119.497, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 10094.916, 'weight': 3, 'content': [{'end': 10101.121, 'text': "And I have some skepticism about gender theory, but it doesn't come down to impact the way I think trans people should be treated,", 'start': 10094.916, 'duration': 6.205}, {'end': 10104.604, 'text': 'which I think is be fucking nice and human about it.', 'start': 10101.121, 'duration': 3.483}, {'end': 10104.925, 'text': "I don't know.", 'start': 10104.664, 'duration': 0.261}, {'end': 10110.57, 'text': "But when I'm talking about the thing, my conclusions are that transsexuality is really unique.", 'start': 10105.305, 'duration': 5.265}, {'end': 10115.614, 'text': "It's not like cis or cis woman or man sexuality at all.", 'start': 10111.31, 'duration': 4.304}, {'end': 10117.115, 'text': 'And to me, this is super cool.', 'start': 10115.954, 'duration': 1.161}, {'end': 10119.497, 'text': 'But a lot of people, this is very politicized right now.', 'start': 10117.155, 'duration': 2.342}], 'summary': 'Transsexuality is unique, should be treated with kindness, and is currently politicized.', 'duration': 24.581, 'max_score': 10094.916, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc10094916.jpg'}, {'end': 10205.762, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 10176.598, 'weight': 0, 'content': [{'end': 10178.738, 'text': 'Let me ask you one from that deck.', 'start': 10176.598, 'duration': 2.14}, {'end': 10180.919, 'text': 'Is sex really about power??', 'start': 10179.298, 'duration': 1.621}, {'end': 10183.319, 'text': "So what's the role of power dynamics in sex?", 'start': 10181.339, 'duration': 1.98}, {'end': 10189.561, 'text': 'With everything you understand, like from the survey, in terms of what people are turned on by,', 'start': 10184.479, 'duration': 5.082}, {'end': 10195.662, 'text': "you've talked about like the preferences that women versus men have for, like submissiveness and dominance.", 'start': 10189.561, 'duration': 6.101}, {'end': 10201.558, 'text': "And we've already talked about it a little 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But there's a gap.", 'start': 10233.859, 'duration': 3.701}, {'end': 10241.341, 'text': "What's the gap? The gap is the dominant-submissive gap.", 'start': 10238.84, 'duration': 2.501}, {'end': 10243.122, 'text': 'More women are submissive than there are dominant men.', 'start': 10241.381, 'duration': 1.741}, {'end': 10247.806, 'text': "Oh, wait, really? 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Yeah.", 'start': 10259.597, 'duration': 8.245}, {'end': 10269.222, 'text': 'Or, like, sexually.', 'start': 10268.242, 'duration': 0.98}, {'end': 10270.323, 'text': 'Sexually Sexually.', 'start': 10269.543, 'duration': 0.78}, {'end': 10271.003, 'text': 'In bed.', 'start': 10270.643, 'duration': 0.36}, {'end': 10277.406, 'text': 'So, like, if I ask questions like, how much do you like being dominant in bed? Like, men are less likely to answer a strong yes to that question.', 'start': 10271.043, 'duration': 6.363}, {'end': 10282.148, 'text': 'But if I ask, are you likely to be submissive? 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The significant increase in the sample size from 40,000 to 500,000 demonstrates the viral impact of incentives on survey participation.', "The survey demographic predominantly comprises females in their early 20s, with approximately 70% being female, aligning well with TikTok's demographics. The demographic composition of the survey reflects a 70% female participation, predominantly in their early 20s, which mirrors TikTok's user base.", 'The chapter highlights the cultural honesty about sexuality among young people, suggesting that they are likely more open and honest about their sexuality, especially when incentivized for truthful responses. 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The comprehensive survey conducted by the researcher reveals a potential gap in dominance-submission preferences between genders, with more women expressing a preference for submission.', 'The researcher discusses the potential factors influencing dominance-submission preferences, including evolutionary theories and the impact of decreasing testosterone levels on sexual compatibility, highlighting the potential implications for sexual satisfaction. The researcher explores potential factors influencing dominance-submission preferences, such as evolutionary theories and decreasing testosterone levels, and highlights the potential implications for sexual satisfaction.', "The researcher conducted a survey on perceptions of rape scenarios, presenting a spectrum of scenarios rated by participants to gauge their perceptions of the degree of 'rapeyness' in each scenario, revealing varying interpretations of different scenarios. 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'start': 10926.137, 'weight': 0, 'content': [{'end': 10931.042, 'text': "And so I don't have a lot of data to back this up in my anecdotal experience because I've tripsied a lot of people.", 'start': 10926.137, 'duration': 4.905}, {'end': 10933.244, 'text': "People either tend to belief construct or they don't.", 'start': 10931.342, 'duration': 1.902}, {'end': 10936.989, 'text': 'And people who do not belief construct seem to get more out of their LSD trips.', 'start': 10933.765, 'duration': 3.224}, {'end': 10942.297, 'text': "So if you can let a belief go without building anything in its absence, it's much more beneficial for you.", 'start': 10937.35, 'duration': 4.947}, {'end': 10948.626, 'text': "And I think I just, for some reason, happen to have some brain that's constructed where I don't get a belief construction at all.", 'start': 10942.657, 'duration': 5.969}, {'end': 10952.147, 'text': "So that's really interesting that belief construction is negative.", 'start': 10949.284, 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'start': 11606.381, 'duration': 2.863}, {'end': 11610.105, 'text': 'It was so fast.', 'start': 11609.284, 'duration': 0.821}, {'end': 11611.687, 'text': 'It was like before I was fucked up.', 'start': 11610.145, 'duration': 1.542}, {'end': 11614.39, 'text': 'After that trip, I woke up the next day and I was clean.', 'start': 11611.807, 'duration': 2.583}, {'end': 11616.371, 'text': 'Wow It was really severe.', 'start': 11614.83, 'duration': 1.541}, {'end': 11620.193, 'text': "Uh, and I definitely don't want to be around him still.", 'start': 11616.391, 'duration': 3.802}, {'end': 11622.115, 'text': 'Like he still like triggers the fear in my body.', 'start': 11620.414, 'duration': 1.701}, {'end': 11624.496, 'text': "Yeah But I don't have that hang up anymore.", 'start': 11622.135, 'duration': 2.361}, {'end': 11625.757, 'text': "I'm like kind of, I'm over it.", 'start': 11624.696, 'duration': 1.061}, {'end': 11626.657, 'text': "Like I've let go.", 'start': 11625.917, 'duration': 0.74}, 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trauma in people.", 'start': 11730.428, 'duration': 4.303}, {'end': 11737.473, 'text': 'they were using the frame where the thing that happened to you was not supposed to happen.', 'start': 11734.731, 'duration': 2.742}, {'end': 11738.853, 'text': 'Yeah Yeah.', 'start': 11738.013, 'duration': 0.84}, {'end': 11740.474, 'text': 'Maybe there needs to be a different frame.', 'start': 11738.893, 'duration': 1.581}, {'end': 11742.054, 'text': 'No, I, I, I agree with you totally.', 'start': 11740.774, 'duration': 1.28}, {'end': 11747.436, 'text': "I just, I've, I've made friends with and talked to this guy named, uh, Paul Conti.", 'start': 11742.074, 'duration': 5.362}, {'end': 11749.576, 'text': 'He wrote a book on, on, on trauma.', 'start': 11747.776, 'duration': 1.8}, {'end': 11751.477, 'text': "He's an incredible, brilliant psychiatrist.", 'start': 11749.616, 'duration': 1.861}, {'end': 11753.738, 'text': "Yeah He's probably agrees with your kind of.", 'start': 11752.077, 'duration': 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Yeah, yeet.', 'start': 11995.914, 'duration': 2.021}, {'end': 12002.517, 'text': "It's like yeet to yote, yachted, yeet.", 'start': 11997.955, 'duration': 4.562}, {'end': 12009.526, 'text': 'So do people, is this like slang? Is this like Urban Dictionary? Or is this actual, or is this Webster? 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Yeah, yeah, it was in a little castle.', 'start': 12099.82, 'duration': 2.701}, {'end': 12104.942, 'text': 'It was in the winter, so we were all cozied up by the fire.', 'start': 12102.541, 'duration': 2.401}, {'end': 12109.165, 'text': "I'm jumping around here.", 'start': 12104.962, 'duration': 4.203}, {'end': 12114.448, 'text': 'Twitter poll, have you ever hitchhiked? 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The speaker successfully asked someone out using a survey process and went on a bold first date in an Airbnb, reflecting on the romantic nature of the experience.', 'The speaker reflects on taking bold risks, including yeeting herself across the globe and attending a castle event in the south of France, which had a significant impact on her life. The speaker reflects on taking bold risks, such as yeeting herself across the globe and attending a castle event in the south of France, which had a significant impact on her life.', "The chapter also touches on the speaker's experiences with hitchhiking and the fears associated with interacting with strangers in such situations. The speaker discusses her fear of interacting with strangers while hitchhiking, highlighting the lack of romanticism in this experience."]}], 'duration': 820.791, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc11355568.jpg', 'highlights': ['The LSD trip led to a profound emotional transformation, resulting in forgiveness and freedom.', 'Revisiting and vocalizing past traumas provided insights into emotional healing and acceptance.', 'The experience shifted the meaning frame from suffering to gratitude and acceptance.', 'Reflects on bold first dates and impactful global ventures, including yeeting across the globe.', 'The speaker successfully asked someone out using a survey process and went on a bold first date.']}, {'end': 14259.929, 'segs': [{'end': 12622.572, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 12584.458, 'weight': 0, 'content': [{'end': 12587.019, 'text': 'Yeah Jealousy is silly, but still we get jealous.', 'start': 12584.458, 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'text': "Whatever that soul of humanity, I have no attachment to it at all, which I think is what I'm thinking of as transhumanist.", 'start': 13323.186, 'duration': 6.281}, {'end': 13338.896, 'text': "I'm like- So you're like, I guess the window of what you consider to be beautiful about life is not limited to this particular definition.", 'start': 13330.047, 'duration': 8.849}, {'end': 13341.578, 'text': "Yeah Let's explode.", 'start': 13339.136, 'duration': 2.442}, {'end': 13343.881, 'text': "Like, let's make our consciousnesses huge.", 'start': 13342.239, 'duration': 1.642}, {'end': 13346.933, 'text': 'So AI could be a part of that.', 'start': 13345.612, 'duration': 1.321}], 'summary': 'Speaker embraces transhumanist ideas, advocating for artificial wombs and brain uploads with no attachment to organic humanness or traditional beauty of life.', 'duration': 39.97, 'max_score': 13306.963, 'thumbnail': 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13431.032, 'duration': 0.501}, {'end': 13437.476, 'text': "If you have access, if you have a brilliant brain that's great at processing information, you have complete control over reality.", 'start': 13431.573, 'duration': 5.903}], 'summary': 'With computation becoming cheaper, there will be many competitors. everything is just information, and those with great processing abilities have complete control over reality.', 'duration': 26.399, 'max_score': 13411.077, 'thumbnail': 'https://coursnap.oss-ap-southeast-1.aliyuncs.com/video-capture/cFSrxSBrgSc/pics/cFSrxSBrgSc13411077.jpg'}, {'end': 14085.86, 'src': 'embed', 'start': 14058.479, 'weight': 9, 'content': [{'end': 14063.142, 'text': "Yeah Who's here to destroy the quality of the conversation.", 'start': 14058.479, 'duration': 4.663}, {'end': 14066.886, 'text': "I think it's like a common misconception about rationalists is that they're kind of like Spock.", 'start': 14063.403, 'duration': 3.483}, {'end': 14070.628, 'text': "Like, ah, we suppress emotion and we're thinking logically, hurt eater.", 'start': 14067.686, 'duration': 2.942}, {'end': 14072.37, 'text': 'But I found this to be really not the case.', 'start': 14070.869, 'duration': 1.501}, {'end': 14076.413, 'text': "Like, I remember there's a less strong thread where I was like really emotional and I commented.", 'start': 14072.65, 'duration': 3.763}, {'end': 14079.055, 'text': "And at the beginning, I was like, just warning, I'm just very emotional.", 'start': 14076.473, 'duration': 2.582}, {'end': 14080.476, 'text': 'And then I just vented my emotions.', 'start': 14079.075, 'duration': 1.401}, {'end': 14081.837, 'text': 'And people responded really well to that.', 'start': 14080.796, 'duration': 1.041}, {'end': 14082.498, 'text': "They're like, cool.", 'start': 14081.857, 'duration': 0.641}, {'end': 14085.86, 'text': "Like, you're just genuinely, truthfully expressing your state.", 'start': 14082.538, 'duration': 3.322}], 'summary': "Rationalists aren't 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Emphasizes the preference for discussing ideas over past experiences and the impact on the depth and intimacy of conversations.", "The impact of pornography on society is discussed, raising questions about its effects on sexualization and the potential need for societal adaptation. Discussion on the potential effects of pornography on society's sexualization and the need for adaptation in real-life connections.", 'The conversation delves into the desire for extended lifespans, with considerations of transhumanism and immortality. Explores the desire for extended lifespans, considering transhumanism and immortality.']}, {'end': 13574.713, 'start': 13282.598, 'title': 'Transhumanism and ai development', 'summary': 'Discusses transhumanism, ai development, and existential risks related to ai, emphasizing the potential impact of advanced ai on the physical world and the need to address the ethical and practical implications, including the possibility of ai manipulating human minds and the concept of human-ai relationships.', 'duration': 292.115, 'highlights': ['The chapter discusses transhumanism and the extension of life and consciousness, expressing a lack of attachment to the traditional notion of human identity, indicating a transhumanist perspective. The speaker expresses openness to concepts such as artificial wombs and brain uploading, demonstrating a transhumanist viewpoint that values the expansion of consciousness and life beyond traditional human identity.', "The conversation delves into the speaker's concerns about the rapid development of AI, particularly the existential risks associated with advanced language models like GPT-3 and the potential for AI to manipulate human minds. The speaker expresses apprehension regarding the accelerating advancement of AI, specifically highlighting the unsettling nature of language models like GPT-3 and the potential for AI to manipulate human cognition, raising existential risks.", 'The discussion touches on the profound impact of AI on physical reality, emphasizing the potential for AI to control and manipulate the atoms around us, highlighting the transformative power of AI in affecting the physical world. The conversation underscores the significant influence of AI in shaping physical reality, emphasizing the potential for AI to exert control over the atoms in the environment, signifying the transformative potential of AI technology.']}, {'end': 13928.396, 'start': 13574.833, 'title': 'Ai, humanoid robots, and human relationships', 'summary': 'Discusses the potential of ai, challenges in creating human bodies, the importance of imperfections in relationships, and the complexities of conflict in relationships, highlighting the need for resistance and the threat of leaving.', 'duration': 353.563, 'highlights': ['The difficulty in understanding the embryogenesis process for growing human bodies is discussed, suggesting a more likely outcome of developing humanoid robotics.', "The potential for AI to use charm and intelligence to compensate for a 'crappy' body is mentioned, emphasizing the significance of super intelligence.", 'The importance of imperfections in relationships and the need for resistance and the threat of leaving are highlighted, reflecting on the complexities of conflict and the romantic nature of such dynamics.', 'The desire for imperfections and resistance in relationships is expressed, questioning the need for a completely perfect and conflict-free relationship.']}, {'end': 14259.929, 'start': 13929.477, 'title': 'Understanding rationalist discourse', 'summary': "Explores the rationalist community's approach to discourse and conversation, emphasizing respect, clear communication, and logical reasoning, as well as the value of expressing emotions authentically and the pursuit of knowledge through yearning.", 'duration': 330.452, 'highlights': ['The rationalist community emphasizes respectful and compassionate discourse, focusing on understanding differing perspectives and reasoning, rather than engaging in antagonistic debates. The rationalists prioritize respectful and compassionate discourse, encouraging understanding of different perspectives and reasoning rather than engaging in antagonistic debates.', 'The guideline for rationalist discourse includes expectations such as avoiding straightforwardly false statements, making clear and falsifiable claims, and not jumping to conclusions, promoting logical and clear communication. The guideline for rationalist discourse includes expectations such as avoiding straightforwardly false statements, making clear and falsifiable claims, and not jumping to conclusions, promoting logical and clear communication.', 'The rationalist community values authentic expression of emotions, encouraging individuals to be clear about their emotional state and framing, promoting genuine and truthful communication. The rationalist community values authentic expression of emotions, encouraging individuals to be clear about their emotional state and framing, promoting genuine and truthful communication.', 'The conversation also delves into the meaning of life, emphasizing the pursuit of knowledge and the state of yearning as fundamental to human existence. 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The speaker expresses apprehension regarding the accelerating advancement of AI, specifically highlighting the unsettling nature of language models like GPT-3 and the potential for AI to manipulate human cognition, raising existential risks.", 'The discussion touches on the profound impact of AI on physical reality, emphasizing the potential for AI to control and manipulate the atoms around us, highlighting the transformative power of AI in affecting the physical world.']}], 'highlights': ["Aella's innovative approach to sex work and successful marketing strategies resulted in a 100k income from OnlyFans.", "Aella's creative approach to sex work led to her top post on Reddit, indicating her unique and successful strategies.", 'Aella is a prolific creator of thought-provoking Twitter polls, showcasing her ability to engage audiences on various topics related to human sexuality.', 'The potential of everyone to engage in scientific inquiry is emphasized, challenging the perception that science is only for experts.', 'The excitement of uncertainty in conversations is explored, with a focus on the fear and allure of danger, and the potential of transparency in science.', 'The illusion of free will and identity is explored, emphasizing the role of choice in shaping the sense of self and the poetic nature of philosophical narratives.', 'Consciousness is a complex concept tied to free will and identity, shedding light on the common confusion of these concepts as a singular entity while highlighting their distinct elements and complexities.', 'The discussion revolves around prediction markets, insider trading, and the implications of having absolute power, including the potential consequences and ethical considerations of manipulating markets and wielding god-like abilities.', 'Escaping conservative religious upbringing, losing faith after exposure to different culture, cultivating independent thinking.', 'The struggles of interacting with people outside of the homeschooling environment are outlined, including the impact of hierarchical submission and lack of confidence in social interactions.', "The woman's exploration of sexuality and personal freedom included a period of casual sex with multiple partners, driven by her attempts to understand societal norms and expectations regarding sex and relationships.", 'Using external platforms like Reddit and Twitter for marketing led to a 100K income on OnlyFans.', 'The interviewee shares a poignant encounter with a terminally ill client, illustrating the depth of intimacy and vulnerability experienced in their profession, showcasing the profound impact of their work on a personal level.', 'The LSD trip led to a profound emotional transformation, resulting in forgiveness and freedom.', 'The speaker shares the tracking of personal encounters, including 42 free sex partners, distinguishing between paid clients and personal relationships and providing details on the data tracked, such as positions used and orgasms with clients, and basic information with personal encounters like age and city.', 'The rationalist community emphasizes respectful and compassionate discourse, focusing on understanding differing perspectives and reasoning, rather than engaging in antagonistic debates.', "The conversation delves into the speaker's concerns about the rapid development of AI, particularly the existential risks associated with advanced language models like GPT-3 and the potential for AI to manipulate human minds."]}